Meek isn't Weak

by Francine Biere
Published February 9, 2006

Blessed are the meek … Matthew 5:5 Part 2
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The definition of meek, as noted in Part One, can lead us to the world's definition -- which easily brings words like fearful and faint-hearted to mind. Somewhere in this list, you'll usually find the word weak.

The outward expression of meekness could easily be confused with weakness. However, just like choosing to accept God's plans for us, doing it requires a strength beyond our own. Instead, our compassion for others must be the driving force that strengthens us to care about them.

If we look at meekness as a lifestyle, we see someone who is gentle and humble. Jesus himself said that he was meek: "Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls." Matthew 11:29, King James Version

Most people who live a lifestyle of meekness live unselfishly. They are generously thoughtful, often unassuming, and think of others first. Yet they exhibit a serenity that is assuring and comforting, extending a kind word in a society that seems more bent on serving themselves.

It might be easier to understand if we look at the opposite lifestyle. In other words, people who are self-centered, quarrelsome, and revengeful. They are greedy and respond in cruel, uncaring, and heartless ways. Ruthless and spiteful behavior can be seen just about anywhere these days.

It's even harder not to react when we've been hurt. Once again, children provide an excellent example. Take away a favorite toy and they want to grab it back, or worse, retaliate. When they don't get their own way, they can react selfishly. Children are often brutal and vindictive. Sharing is one of the first lessons most toddlers are taught. Being considerate is another.

It seems as if many adults never learned those lessons. The simplest and most visual examples can be seen on the highway. "Yield, merge, stop" – how often do we see people ignoring those signs, let alone extending common courtesy? Road rage seems one of the more obvious examples of how our society demonstrates the opposite of what Jesus is saying.

How do we not react when we've been treated badly or someone has wounded us? The key is to develop a compassionate heart first. When compassion becomes an inherent part of our nature, our reactions change.

This doesn't mean we don't become angry or that we aren't hurt. The difference is that we choose to respond from our own beliefs rather than be forced by circumstances to react as others do. More simply, we don't sink to their level. Instead, we have developed the capability to turn from what most would see as a normal response and react in a humble and gentle way.

Sometimes I think we dwell on the ways Jesus calls us to be rather than looking at the positive consequences of such behavior. If I'm strong in being meek, there's not much someone can do to rattle my cage. How many people would love to have that kind of peace?

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